Tips for Handling JEALOUSY as a Dancer (whether you’re jealous or others are jealous of you)

So many dancers experience the feeling of jealousy towards other dancers and have a hard time moving past it. Some dancers are also mistreated by others who are jealous of them. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down what to do in both scenarios to help you focus back on what you’re there to do and have a productive, satisfying experience as you dance.

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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro
2:02 – What to do if others are jealous of you
6:18 – My favorite quote for dealing with judgement and criticism from others
9:47 – 5 tips for what to do if you feel jealous
10:01 – 1. Choose a solution-oriented focus
12:14 – 2. Ask yourself, “is it worth it?”
20:10 – 3. See the jealousy as a challenge and opportunity
21:24 – 4. Be honest about what your insecurities are and do the inner work
22:42 – 5. Practice gratitude

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